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I'm a 22 year old married gal since 6 months.My parents,in laws and husband are old fashioned.I got a job in MNC with good package but NONE of them are supporting me.They think a grls place is in Kitchen and so house chores only.I am not gonna keep Quiet.I wanna leave home and Live me Life away from everyone.I have very few time.Please Suggest me Ladies whether to stay or leave.,!!! P.S.They are not gonna change even if i try to convince.

I'm a 22 year old married gal since 6 months.My parents,in laws and husband are old fashioned.I got a job in MNC with good package but NONE of them are supporting me.They think a grls place is in Kitchen and so house chores only.I am not gonna keep Quiet.I wanna leave home and Live me Life away from everyone.I have very few time.Please Suggest me Ladies whether to stay or leave.,!!! P.S.They are not gonna change even if i try to convince.
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Go for mnc... career is more imp... if ur hubby loves u he will support u at d end...

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Gal Give a chance to ur career.. nobody should dictate us how to live our lives. WISH U GOOD LUCK DEAR.. STAY BLESSED

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Hey You Strong Lady, You are just 22 in age Dear. You still have so much to learn from the outer world. To learn and to groom yourself you will have to interact with the world. And job is something that will give you this opportunity. I understand sometimes parents and in-laws are tough to explain everything. But keep trying unless u succeed.. Here are some points u can use for convincing: Just imagine a situation after say few years, where you have to become the Man of the house due to some emergency. What will u do a that time? Or, there are researches that say that working women can brought up their child in a more modern fashion as compared to non working women. Try it out with positivity.. things will definitely work out.. All the very best for your upcoming beautiful life.. :)

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U r jst 22...dnt leave ur home.. Try to convince ur husband first den ur in laws.. If they ready den only do job.. If they r not try to explain them y u want to do job.. C u can get many carrier opportunities in lyf but not husband n family... So dnt go against dem..if not now but may aftr 1 yr dey might allow u so think bfr u take any call..

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Go girl go .. grab the job .. live the life .. such parents will never support you if you face trouble in marriage and such in law's and husband will never understand your worth. Work, earn see who all comes back to you .. you are just 22, you have time to experiment ..

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U shud work at any cost dear by convincing dem bt i suggest dnt leave

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Try to take your husband in confidence first n choose your career

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This is golden opportunity for u... accept it... Just step out baby and make your career bright then automatically your family will support you.. God bless u.. and all the best for ur new life....

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Without thinking even a second just go for the job. In-laws will never want you to be independent. Never ever leave the job. U r just 22 yr old.

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get the job and live your dream life ❤

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Job is more important rather having a financial foothold is really important. So go for it. Thus would be hard in the beginning but if you can keep up it will be all ok.

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Start working against their will but don't leave the house or anyone because money is not everything..U can't live alone..So start working n eventually they will adjust with u n accept

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Dnt leave anyone..convence ur husband nd laws nd if nt go against them..they will b rude and angry wid u bt once i start wrking nd tym passes they will get used to this and will accept u

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I wish dat u wuld hv consult abt dis before marriage wid ur husband..bt no jab jago savera..jst fu**in lev dem..dey dnt deserve u..ur d best.go ahead wid wt u lik...ur capable too.n dnt lev d job

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Leave ur home. Go for the job. N work hard for urself n be at a high status. Nd show to every single person who thought tht girls r only meant for kitchen. It would be a big slap at their face.

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If he loves you than he will understand. Move forward with your job opportunity but speak to your family, your Mom and dad for this

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Not even your hubby is supporting??? Does he even love you??

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Work, make your life worth living. Good luck.

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M not gonna tell what u should do.. bt life is all about taking chances dear.. dun know why u got married so early.. bt do whatever ur heart say.. so if Ur heart is saying to go for Ur career nd chase Ur dream then go for it.. getting married is not give ur life key to ur in laws.. those people who love us support us not kill our dreams..

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U r too young. Go n make ur career. Convince ur hubby

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If you leave your job you will regret it forever but if you leave your family you will regret for a few years maybe.

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Pursue your dreams. If you cannot convince them then leave but you should take up that job.

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You should go. People rarely get lucky like you. Your folks will be mad at you but they won't stay mad for long. Pamper them with gifts and other stuff when you get your pay 😜 Gradually they will start supporting you.

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u should go my dear..... this is ur chance to prove him wrong..... all the best

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Yes,start living separately..Your career is important

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Leave if u think this is right ..

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Hello girl! I am almost your age and my parents are starting to look for a match for me and it has been a year since I have not worked after finishing my post graduation because they wanted me home and learn household as I have always stayed away from home, but what I can suggest you is please go ahead with the job if your husband loves you , he wont let you go so easily.. I think its very important for a woman to be happy to keep people around them happy. if there are any chance of you working in the family business same as your husband then I think it would be lot easier for you, but if not then do what your heart says.!! go ahead

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Just take the job and live your life. Don't think anything else. If they cannot understand you and your dreams then you don't need them. It will be hard but its the best for you dear. Go for it.

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I understand what you are going through dear.. Even I am in the same boat. Although I am yet to star my career. Balancing our careers and giving importance to the new family is like walking on a rope. I got the gist of your family the way you have mentioned. Sometimes in life when there are extremely difficult obstacles, we need to choose a different path. Try talking to your husband and make him understand. If he still doesn’t then here are some of the ways you can try convincing your family without hurting them: 1. If you are an artistic person: Try different hobbies that can earn you some money. Festive season is around the corner. Diwali, Christmas and New Year are coming up. See if you can do something. For example Try making creative diya’s or lanterns for Diwali and sell them at minimum price in your neighborhood. (DIY tutorials are easily available on net) 2. If you like to teach: See if you can come up with creative and fun ways of teaching little toddlers. I know a friend who taught colours to her kids with blocks while playing with them. Else you can tutor to needy people for free. Try teaching dance, music or any other skill you know. 3. Other activities such as knitting, baking cakes, making chocolates, ceramic painting, etc. can help you at least earn some money. Whatever you do, believe in it, be passionate and talk passionately about it. Most importantly learn to be patient so that everything will fall into place. I know sometimes we loose it but try. Hope you will find something useful. All the best.

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Career first tell your husband that you are leaving and I hope he will support you

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Just leave

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Go for your career

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Career first no questions. Fight through it girl!!! Good luck and luv to you 😊

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