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Hi Guys... 😊 I have a serious issue... My first love, He came back Its been 8 years since we start to love... We got brokeup because of our family issues... Now he is proposing me again and he wants me to marry... He is 25 and iam 22... My parents doesn't like him... He is smoking and drinking but he stopped everything now for me I believe him and Iam ready to give a second chance because he is my first love My mother always keep on repeating that she cant do this marrige to me... What shall I do??? Please help me in this He is helpless broke and alone Even me... Same situation...

Hi Guys... 😊
I have a serious issue...
My first love, He came back 
Its been 8 years since we start to love...
We got brokeup because of our family issues... Now he is proposing me again and he wants me to marry... He is 25 and iam 22...
My parents doesn't like him... 
He is smoking and drinking but he stopped everything now for me
I believe him and Iam ready to give a second chance because he is my first love
My mother always keep on repeating that she cant do this marrige to me... 
What shall I do??? Please help me in this
He is helpless broke and alone 
Even me... Same situation...
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Don't fall for him again i repeat just don't. These guys are already addicted. After marriage he will start doimg again. Listen to your mom!!

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Dont take any decision alone becoz its not about now its about ur whole life trust me without any support its hard to survive even it is luv marriage so try to convince ur parents bcz dey r necessary too and yes it is ryt addiction of alcohol and smoking doesn't go so easily bt if u luv him gave him second chance bt not all with heart with ur brain too (dont let urself emotional fool afterward)

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He is not alone. Only you are alone. He treated you like a backup option. The person who hurts you can never heal you

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Don't ... There is nothing like second chance. Its a trap. N it will spoil your life. Your parents know what is best for u. M of ur age, n with similar conditions. But i wont allow that person to ruin my life again. I love him. Yes i do. But not more than my parents n myself. I wish for me more than for him Dont go for him girl.

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Try dating him for 1-2 years from now! You can marry him later as well!

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Ask your parents why he is bad and try to clear everything between u both and your parents and note your bf in everything do not hurry for shadi may be your parents are right

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Whatever you do just be sure it doesn't make your parents unhappy...because after all they are the ones who really care and our most important...what so ever they do is always right

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Sometimes there's no second chance. Don't go with him 😊 think practically. Good Luck!

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See girl let me tell u one thing straight... u guys broke up bcoz of ur family issues or whatever stuff! But then it is clear that u did not lyk his smoking and drinking habit and u do not even now... back then maybe u gave in efforts to let him get rid of all that, he did not? And now that u guys spent such a long tym together, this first love thing comes to u, and that he is alone, he basically needs a company! I am sorry to say, if u wish to go for him, u can obviously but if u get involved with him all over again, u cannot and cannot get out of the relationship if he lyks turns out to be that same person that he used to be before... and darling before marriage guys do a lot of things, put in a lot of efforts, and then everything becomes lyk a topsy turvy situation...see my words can seem very rude to u,but I have seen such examples around me... I am not at all demoralising u but u know u r young and in love and then the whole world seems nothing in front of the person u love even if he is wrong! That is the bitter truth...I just recommend u to think about it not hundreds but thousands of tym and then go ahead...here's sending u good luck and wishes :) just do not do anything that sort of impulses u to grit ur teeth in the future out of anger on urself!

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Better to listen to your parents. Because they always think and want what's best for you, dear. And at the end, they will always be by your side through thick and thin. πŸ’– So it's not right to decide things on your own, even though its your own personal matter. ☺ Listen to your parents and move on.

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I think you should give him another chance

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Ask your parents to give him a second chance but before that please do a background check on what he has been doing throughout these 8 years

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An ex is an ex for a reason!...and believe me people does not change

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U can give him a second chance if u haven't moved on yet but be in a relationship don't be in a hurry to marry him. After all its a lifetime decision... U nvr know if he started drinking again and these type of addiction will ruin ur life.

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Choose Ur family nt him because Ur family loves U

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Look, be practical about life decisions like marriage. Your whole life depends on that decision. So girl for that sake, don't take decision by being emotional. It has been 8 long years right! You must have moved on. And remember no one can care for you more than your parents, if your mother is not supporting you dont go for that boy. If you want time take time and then decide.

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Relation me Sirf isliy aana kyunki tum alone feel kr rhi ho.....acha sign nai h... Alone is temporary.....relation is permanent.....so think what matter most......u have started at very young age.....now u can checkout......what u actually want....give it a time!.....

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Respect ur feelingsssss.....bt trust me in dese cases Trust ur mom.....πŸ˜€

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I think you are too young to think about marriage... it's the time for you ( both of you) to take your respective careers seriously.. when it comes to your relationship.., you're saying that you have been seeing each other since you are barely 15. it's merely infatuation in your adholsence.. I am not judging that you are wrong or your guy or your parents are wrong. All I'm saying is that you have to give time.. Rethink your decision.. Recheck your priorities.. Because at the end.., someone may or may not be there with you or for you... but you should be there for you.. take a stand.. to marry.., you not only need the appropriate one.., but also an appropriate time..

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He will start drinking and smoking again after marriage don't believe him and listen to your mom cause she has more experienced these boys before we do

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Don’t take a decision alone check it out with ur parents or go to a psychologist and see

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First of all make him comfortable with your family,for more understanding ur family dislike/like he has to understand take him for lunch or a dinner with ur family.the boy has to known what your parents want what should he need to improve in himself so that your parents going to like him.compromise from ur end n his end must be needed because it will make u balance as well in ur whole life. Fall in love is easy but struggling for love is not so easy. Everything is possible dear if u struggle for ur love life.

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everybody deserves a chance.

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Your parents can never be wrong for you !!! Try convincing them and then go ahead ..explain him calmly to wait

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Agar aap unko second chance dtea ho tao bi kya apko hi prblm hogi dear... qki apke prnts nhi mangea... Aur phir se vahi dard sehna pdga unse dur hoke ...iss se aacha h koi chance hi mt lo.... Khd ko dard dne ka apne prnts ko aur apke ex bf ko...

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